Differences in Manners and Rules Between Japan and Other Countries Part3

Culture & Customs

🚾Story E: Japanese Toilets Are Too High-Tech!?

One day, I was talking with a traveler from Sweden named Erik. He had just arrived in Tokyo and was staying at a hotel in Shinjuku.

Erik
Erik

Kenji, I just used a toilet that had more buttons than my TV remote!

He looked half-confused, half-impressed.

Erik
Erik

It even played music when I sat down… was it trying to hide the sound or something!?

Erik had encountered a typical Japanese high-tech toilet for the first time. The warm seat surprised him, and when it automatically flushed as he stood up, he actually jumped a little.

He admitted he pressed the “bidet” button just out of curiosity.

Erik
Erik

I didn’t expect a surprise water attack, but now I get why people love it.

Japanese toilets often come with a set of advanced features:

  • Heated seats
  • Bidet and spray options
  • Automatic lids that open and close
  • Deodorizing systems
  • “Otohime” sound machines that play flushing noises

I explained that these features are designed not just for comfort, but also for cleanliness and privacy—especially important in public spaces.

In many Western countries, public restrooms can be dirty or even avoided. But in Japan, clean and high-tech toilets are common in places like train stations, department stores, and even some parks.

Erik
Erik

Honestly, going to the bathroom here feels like a futuristic experience. I kind of want to bring one back home!


🚃Story F: Why Is It So Quiet on the Train?

Another story came from Zoe, an exchange student from Canada who was studying in Osaka.

Zoe
Zoe

The first time I got on a Japanese train, I thought something was wrong, Everyone was so quiet… no phone calls, no loud chatting. It felt like a library on rails!

She explained how, back in Canada, people often talk loudly or even play music through speakers on the train. At first, the silence in Japan made her feel awkward—like she should whisper even to herself.

But over time, Zoe began to appreciate the peaceful atmosphere. She noticed people reading, napping, or just quietly enjoying the ride.

Zoe
Zoe

Now I actually look forward to riding trains. It’s relaxing. And if someone does speak loudly, it feels almost shocking.

In Japan, silence on public transportation is a form of unspoken etiquette. It shows respect for others, especially during rush hours when trains get extremely crowded.

Most people set their phones to silent mode, and phone calls are discouraged. Earphones are used to enjoy music privately. This collective behavior reflects a broader cultural value: not disturbing others.

Of course, the rule isn’t written in stone—but the social pressure is strong enough that most people follow it naturally.


🧳 Tips for Travelers:

  • Toilets: Don’t be afraid to try the buttons—many have English labels. Just be ready for a surprise or two!
  • Trains: Keep your voice down and put your phone on silent. It might feel unusual, but it helps everyone enjoy a peaceful ride.

Conclusion

In Japan, people are concerned about other people.
Perhaps you have seen a businessman in a suit making a phone call on the train. However, it is likely that he was talking with his mouth covered because he was unavoidably on the phone for work.
There may be a little too much care, but this is Japan!

P.S.

Is there such a manner against Japan? I have finished writing the third one in the series, haven’t I?
I knew that manner! Did you have any?
After I finish part 4, I will take up another subject.

またね(Matane)!

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